Wednesday, July 29, 2009

From Daddy

I just wanted to say hey to everybody. I really miss my baby boy, Kaden. His whole family misses him...especially his brother Logan. Mommy misses him the most. Anyway, just wanted to give you all an update on daddy. I'm doing pretty good. I really have a hard time when Kristi is feeling down. I love her so much and can feel when she's in a funky mood. I just want her to be happy. I want her to be happy ALL THE TIME!! I know that this is a hard thing to go through for a family, but I, as a father, just want to make it right.

I am still happy that I got the 17 days with my son KADEN. Yes, I'm still upset that GOD took him from us, but that was his plan. I am still so sorry that my wife and I lost our only child together that we had been trying to conceive for over three years. But, I am happy that Kaden's story has touched so many people in this world. He was AMAZING!!! I will always love him.

Good news is...we will be trying again after we get back from our 1st vacation together as husband and wife. I KNOW that we will succeed in conceiving another BEAUTIFUL baby that has NO probelms what so ever. I really look forward to that.

I LOVE YOU ALL SO MUCH AND THANK YOU FOR STILL SUPPORTING MY FAMILY.

WE WILL BE IN TOUCH SOON.

LOVE THE KUEHL FAMILY
(Craig)

9 comments:

  1. Kaden's impact on this world is so much more than you will ever realize. He is a beautiful child and you should forever be proud.

    Thank you for sharing your feelings so that other Dads in your place know they are not alone. We, as wives, depend so much on our husbands and I thank you for taking such great care of Kristi.

    Enjoy your vacation and take care of each other. We still think of you often.
    ~Kellie, mom to Carter M.

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  2. I sincerely hope that you guys enjoy your vacation. ...I sort of smile this morning because something must have been in the air last night for all the CDH daddies. My husband felt the need to post as well as another father in Texas that has been posing for a family that he is supporting. ...this is so awesome because it really lets us women know how supported we are by the men in our lives..plus we can see that you are taking care of your heart when sometimes we feel so overwhelmed with ourselves and our predicament that you guys sometimes get left in the shadows.
    Kaden was a blessing and taught us all so much. .....I'm forever at a loss of words because I've not traveled the CDH road quite yet...simply the roller coaster of waiting and doing my best to enjoy what I have now....I wish you guys luck in another pregnancy because that is something I can relate to. It took my husband and I 5 years. This will be it's own journey for you guys and I hope that it is smooth and swift sailing! Love and prayers to your family. Chanda

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  3. :-) I know that you will conceive too! I sure hope we are pregnant again together and then I can stalk your blog to read/share all the happy things going on in our lives!!!! Have a great vacation you guys! I think of you often...

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  4. It's great to hear from you Craig! Stef and I are really excited to hear you all will try again. We think about you guys often and know we continue to pray for healing for all of you.
    Shawn

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  5. Enjoy your much needed vacation! We hope that another baby is in your VERY NEAR future!
    Thank you for continuing to share your family with us.
    Wishing you guys the best!
    Hugs and prayers,
    Sheryl

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  6. It's so nice to hear from you Craig, we are thinking about all of you. Thank you for keeping us posted on how all of you are doing. Give Kristi a big hug and kiss from us!!

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  7. Hi Craig,

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  8. Craig I know I don't know you or your family but you guys have truly touch myself and others. Thank you for share your special memory of your precious little boy. Good luck to you guys and enjoy each other and the love you two share with each other will help you and your family, it's nice to hear a daddy comments. Have a great Vac.

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  9. I just found your blog and want to say how sorry I am for your loss. We are expecting a CDH baby and will be delivering at UCSF in September. My heart goes out to you and your family.

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